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Famous foot fetishists people with podophilia — not pedophilia include Elvis Presley, Andy Warhol, F. Scott Fitzgerald, and megastar burlesque vedette Dita Von Teese. Feet are second behind sex organs as the most commonly eroticized body parts, and there may be a scientific reason why. In other words, areas of the brain that control genital pleasure and foot pleasure are neighbors.
There are sub-groups of this fetish. Some foot lovers are specifically turned on by certain footwear or toenail polish, others see foot worship as a power exchange in BDSM. Like all sex practices, foot fetishism draws inspiration from global culture. Giving attention to feet has been seen as an act of worship since ancient times. Reverence is the stuff of fetish play. My name is Alexander Cheves, and I am known by friends in the kink and leather community as Beastly. I am a sex-positive writer and blogger.
The views in this slideshow do not reflect those of The Advocate and are based solely off of my own experiences. Like everything I write, the intent of this piece is to break down the stigmas surrounding the sex lives of gay men. Those who are sensitive to frank discussions about sex are invited to click elsewhere, but consider this: If you are outraged by content that address sex openly and honestly, I invite you to examine this outrage and ask yourself whether it should instead be directed at those who oppress us by policing our sexuality.
Foot fetishists tell us what makes a sexy foot
For all others, enjoy the slideshow. And feel free to leave your own suggestions of sex and dating topics in the comments. Hungry for more? The smell of wax and polish can be a big turn-on for boot lickers.
16 ways to explore a foot fetish
Its a fun and sexy power dynamic that can incorporate a lot of different things. I prefer high shines over oil tans simply because I like to make them shine again. Erotic foot massages are a great place to start.
Feet are filled with nerve endings, and with the addition of massage oil and lotion, a foot massage can be anything from relaxing to very erotic. If this is your first foray into exploring your foot fetish with a sex partner, ask them if you can massage their feet and see how both respond to it. As I covered in my slideshow on ticklingmost people are ticklish on the bottoms of their feet because of all the nerve endings there.
Check out my full slideshow for the best tickling tips. Of course, the sensory deprivation probably increased the first experience.
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He licked, sucked, feathered, flogged, all the things you can do to feet. I was blown away at how much you could feel from just your feet! Ever since that encounter, Jonathan loves incorporating feet play into sex. So what, you have my cock in your ass? Forced feminization is a form of erotic degradation that many people get into — including me.
For submissives and dominants with foot and shoe fetishes, a good pair of high heeled shoes can make your next session so much hotter. Many people aroused by sneakers are turned on by their smell and the act of putting their nose and mouth in them. A common form of erotic degradation is when a dominant puts your mouth and nose in a used shoe and ties it around your head with bondage tape or bandage wrap, forming a kind of muzzle.
Kinky sex writer Miranda Kane has her own scenario for toe play. I would start a typical domination session by getting the sub to lick my shoes.
Make him lie on his back, and suck off each of your toes one by one. Tell him you want his tongue to go around each toe, in and out the of gaps between and finally push as many as you can into his mouth to see how much he can take.
Tony, a gay man from Boston, loves large feet. He listed several guys and their shoe sizes who he thinks are hot. Sexy feet, bright shoes, high heels, and a loud gas pedal are an erotic formula for many people since there is a virtually endless supply of internet pedal porn. Footjobs — the ultimate jack off for playmates with penises and raging foot fetishes.
Put their penis between the arches of your feet and stroke up and down. Your foot fetishist friend will love it. For people with shoe fetishes, certain kinds of shoes may trigger arousal over others. And the clacking sound they make on a hardwood floor gives me an instant lady boner. Red socks at a kink event is an indicator that someone is into fisting, while yellow socks show a fetish for piss play, and so on.
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Colored hankies worn in the back left or right pocket of your jeans indicated what kind of kinks you were into and whether or not you were submissive or dominant. The practice has largely dropped off, but colored socks remain a throwback to that time. But what if socks themselves are your fetish? For him, the smell of feet is the biggest trigger. Instant boner. Working my way back and forth and giving a guy a boner as I worship his feet really gets me going.
Elmer Batters —another famous foot lover, is one of the first fetish photographers to capture women's feet, legs, and stockings with seductive, sultry clarity. His vintage black-and-white photographs have elements of burlesque and BDSM and mostly depict women reclining in erotic poses in cars and living rooms adorned in the style of the 70s and 80s, with stockinged feet and pantyhose on full display yes, he has a Taschen book.
A quick search for gay stockings and pantyhose porn will deliver thousands of videos — both amateur and studio — proving that this fetish is explored and enjoyed by everyone. Grab some slick silicone or oil-based lube and see how many toes your playmate can take. But first, grab clippers and a nail file.
Nails must be trimmed and filed down as close to the skin as possible before attempting anal play with toes. Remember, your feet are not as dextrous as your hands, and the skin on the bottom of the feet is thicker, meaning you will be less aware of the feeling of their ass as you would be if you were fingering them, so use caution and listen to your partner. Bend him over and wear him like a sock.
Some pro-level ass pigs can take whole feet and more up their holes — an awesome skill that comes after years and years of training, stretching, and expert-level fisting or handballing, for our friends in England. Foot worship is the gold-standard sex play for foot lovers.
Judas, a friend and fellow kinky sex worker, has ample experience in this area. It clearly becomes a phallic object at that moment. Judas is a skilled switch — someone who enjoys both dominant and submissive roles. I love running my tongue up their sole before nibbling or biting into their heel, depending on their pain threshold and preference. For me, this taps into this primal, more animal energy.
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As my teeth bite into their heel, I bury myself further into them. This is the only way to learn about a particular fetish. Visit sites like FetLife — queer men, try Recon — to meet kinky people and find playmates. Some work is always required to find playmates when your sexual interests fall outside the mainstream, but the work is worth it. All Rights Reserved. A word of warning from Alex Cheves My name is Alexander Cheves, and I am known by friends in the kink and leather community as Beastly.
Here is what they had to say:
Lick these boots, slave. Deliver a good foot massage. For tickle play, feet are home base.
Bring feet play into your next BDSM session. Jonathan in San Diego first discovered feet play during a hardcore play session. Explore forced feminization with high-heeled shoes.